Accepting Help
How do I talk to an older parent who refuses home care?
Start with the person's goals, such as staying at home, rather than leading with what they can no longer do.
Aged care questions
Family, Memory & Difficult Conversations
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Try everyday wording such as “Mum is waiting for funding”, “can CHSP pay for gardening?” or “how much does personal care cost?”
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Accepting Help
What if my parent agrees to help and then cancels every visit?
Try to understand whether the cause is fear, unfamiliar workers, timing, cost, memory problems or a poor provider match.
Dementia at Home
Can a person with dementia receive Support at Home?
Yes. A person with dementia can receive Support at Home when assessed as eligible.
Dementia at Home
Can someone with dementia continue living at home?
Many people with dementia remain at home for a long time with the right mix of family, community and formal support.
Dementia at Home
What help is available for a family carer supporting someone with dementia?
Support may include respite, personal care, social support, education, allied health and help coordinating services.
Decision-Making
Can I organise aged care if my parent has memory problems?
You can help, but consent and legal decision-making arrangements still matter.